Wishing you a very happy Thanksgiving as you spend this time with family, friends and loved ones to reflect and think of those that you are thankful for. Enjoy your break.
Blog of school counselor Andrea J. Burston. Sharing my counseling tips and tricks in a fun, realistic and humorous way (my way of life).
Monday, November 25, 2013
Happy Thanksgiving
Wishing you a very happy Thanksgiving as you spend this time with family, friends and loved ones to reflect and think of those that you are thankful for. Enjoy your break.
Monday, November 18, 2013
Answers to Planning Holiday Help Questions
I've gotten several questions from you awesome school counselors from my previous post about planning and implementing holiday assistance programs at your school. So here's my responses to some of my more frequent questions:
-How far in advance do you plan for your holiday help program?
I usually make/print the tags and labels (they're not filled out yet) for the tree in late October and I send home letters to families in early November. I have a quick turnaround time for letters to be returned back to me (usually less than a week) and I am very firm on forms being turned in by the due date.
-What do you do when numbers aren't taken from the tree to help students and families?
I haven't really had that problem. I have the tree up before Thanksgiving break (the parents at my school expect it to be up by then, just in case they want to shop on Black Friday) and my principal mentions it in her weekly message. Last year within 2 days of the announcement all of the tags were taken (I added more gift cards to the tree later to "refill" it and those were also taken in a matter of days)
-Does everyone bring back their gifts if they take a number off the tree?
Yes (knocks on wood)! I'm very fortunate to work in a school where parents are extremely supportive with this project and are more than willing to donate to our families in need.
-What do you do if someone doesn't bring in their gifts?
When the parents take a number off the tree, there's portion that they must fill out for me to keep track of who has what number. I am able to contact the people with "missing gifts" (if needed). I also add gift cards (in any amount) to various stores to our tree in the event that someone doesn't bring in a gift that we can also give out if a gift is missing.
-What if a parent doesn't come in for their child's parent conference as required for the holiday help program?
Unfortunately if a parent does not come in for a conference their child's name does not go on the tree. I also am very firm with this and stress this point (several times) in my letter. My administration fully supports me on this rule. The teachers at my school are great with letting me know who's come in for a conference. In fact some of our hard to reach parents (we all have them at our schools) came in for their conference because they wanted to be sure to be put on the tree, so it's worked out pretty well.
One more thing that we do is write a thank you note to every person that donates a gift for the snowman tree. I use the contact info cards that the parents fill out when they take a number off the tree to know who to address the thank you note to. The administration and student support services team all take a stack of names and write the note to those parents (we do them after the holidays & send them home with their children). So many parents were so impressed with our handwritten notes afterwards!
Planning for a holiday assistance program at your school is very doable, but takes a little planning. Good luck as you prepare for the upcoming holidays at your school.
Do you have any other tips to share for how you plan and implement holiday help at your school?
-How far in advance do you plan for your holiday help program?
I usually make/print the tags and labels (they're not filled out yet) for the tree in late October and I send home letters to families in early November. I have a quick turnaround time for letters to be returned back to me (usually less than a week) and I am very firm on forms being turned in by the due date.
-What do you do when numbers aren't taken from the tree to help students and families?
I haven't really had that problem. I have the tree up before Thanksgiving break (the parents at my school expect it to be up by then, just in case they want to shop on Black Friday) and my principal mentions it in her weekly message. Last year within 2 days of the announcement all of the tags were taken (I added more gift cards to the tree later to "refill" it and those were also taken in a matter of days)
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| Snowman tree |
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| Tags on the tree |
-Does everyone bring back their gifts if they take a number off the tree?
Yes (knocks on wood)! I'm very fortunate to work in a school where parents are extremely supportive with this project and are more than willing to donate to our families in need.
-What do you do if someone doesn't bring in their gifts?
When the parents take a number off the tree, there's portion that they must fill out for me to keep track of who has what number. I am able to contact the people with "missing gifts" (if needed). I also add gift cards (in any amount) to various stores to our tree in the event that someone doesn't bring in a gift that we can also give out if a gift is missing.
-What if a parent doesn't come in for their child's parent conference as required for the holiday help program?
Unfortunately if a parent does not come in for a conference their child's name does not go on the tree. I also am very firm with this and stress this point (several times) in my letter. My administration fully supports me on this rule. The teachers at my school are great with letting me know who's come in for a conference. In fact some of our hard to reach parents (we all have them at our schools) came in for their conference because they wanted to be sure to be put on the tree, so it's worked out pretty well.
One more thing that we do is write a thank you note to every person that donates a gift for the snowman tree. I use the contact info cards that the parents fill out when they take a number off the tree to know who to address the thank you note to. The administration and student support services team all take a stack of names and write the note to those parents (we do them after the holidays & send them home with their children). So many parents were so impressed with our handwritten notes afterwards!
Planning for a holiday assistance program at your school is very doable, but takes a little planning. Good luck as you prepare for the upcoming holidays at your school.
Do you have any other tips to share for how you plan and implement holiday help at your school?
Monday, November 11, 2013
Attending My State Conference
Where's a great place to get fresh ideas to implement in your school, where can you chat and network with other school counselors, where can you leave feeling a little refreshed and empowered? At your state conference of course! I just returned from my state's conference and had a great time connecting with other school counselors and getting great info to take back to my school. To find out when your state's conference is click here.
Here are some pics from NC School Counselor Association State Conference:
I look forward to attending any school counselor conference and take so much back from them. I love any opportunity to get great ideas to take back to my school and being able to meet and network with other school counselors. It was such a treat to meet so many of you wonderful NC School Counselors. Kentucky school counselors look out, blogger BFF Danielle from The School Counselor Blog and I will be joining you in March!
Have you or are you planning on attending your state's conference?
Here are some pics from NC School Counselor Association State Conference:
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| Absolutely phenomenal speaker Dave Weber was an amazing opening speaker! |
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| Selfie with Counselor Intern Kelly |
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| I got to meet Julia Cook....I LOOOVE her books! |
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| With fellow blogger and counselor friend Angela from Life on the Fly Blog (a great blog to read). |
I look forward to attending any school counselor conference and take so much back from them. I love any opportunity to get great ideas to take back to my school and being able to meet and network with other school counselors. It was such a treat to meet so many of you wonderful NC School Counselors. Kentucky school counselors look out, blogger BFF Danielle from The School Counselor Blog and I will be joining you in March!
Have you or are you planning on attending your state's conference?
Monday, November 4, 2013
Need to make an (outside) counselor referral?
How many times has a parent asked you to recommend an outside counselor/therapist for their child, family or just in general? Well counselor friends, I have a site for you! Psychology.com is a website where you simply type in your zip code and the site will give you a list of counselors/therapists in your area. You can also search the counselor list by specialty area.
Do you have any other counselor referral sites to recommend, please share.
Do you have any other counselor referral sites to recommend, please share.